"What do you want out of teaching?"
This question was posted by my AED105 lecturer to us during lecture. Many responses were illicited and many perspectives were shared. I benefitted and got my belief system renewed and reaffirmed.
All along I had learned one principle, & still am holding fast to that no matter what happens.
"Treat others with respect regardless of who they are and you will win your respect". I was not respected as a person, as a student, as a friend when I was young, & I can understand how terrible the feeling is when one is given such treatment. So as I grew, I told myself that I shall treat people with respect, even if they may do me wrong. Well, Im not perfect so that principle did fell at times. I carried this belief with me into HSS when I started teaching.
"Although Im your teacher and an adult, I will give all of you my respect & treat you all as teenagers & not children. But if you cross the boundary and overdo, I will take back my respect for you". This was my pet sentence as I introduced myself to all my previous classes on my first lessons. I dont know how much was received and perceived by them, but I do know some did at least.
As I recalled, I am very touched by a few letters from some students as I left HSS in July.
"Thank you Mr Law for accepting our class and gave us respect. We feel appreciated and cared for and that made us want to learn from you."
"No teacher treated me with respect but you did"
I am not boasting. All these welled up in my mind as the lecture went on & as I reflected on the things I had done in my 19 months in HSS. I smiled as I recollected because I think I did what I had set out to do: To teach students the meaning of respect and the feeling of being respected. Respect is to be earned, not commanded.
I want to preserve my beliefs and ideals in teaching and not waver in the advent of challengesand crisis. I mean it.